Friday, December 3, 2010

A Little Holiday Tough Love

Remember: It's a Holiday Season, not an Eating Season.

If you don't want to derail your own weight loss efforts, you are going to have to take ownership of your eating for the next month.  Scratch that..... You are going to have to take ownership of your eating for the REST OF YOUR LIFE! 

Yeah.... I know this reality sucks, but it's where we are- We didn't get fat by being careful throughout the Holiday Seasons prior, so we sure as heck aren't going to get (or stay) skinny by eating whatever the devil we please until January 2nd.  Plus, if you DO eat whatever you desire for the next month it's going to be even harder to lose the cravings for the simple carbs when the four-week binge is over.

I have so many tempting food thingys coming up I can't even tell you.  But I don't need to, because you can identify- You have them, too!   Look folks, we can't make the tempting foods or fancy schmancy occasions with butter and sugar dripping from them go away.  We are going to have to deal.  And most of the time we are going to have to say "It looks marvelous!  So tempting, but NO, and thank you very much for your efforts"- sometimes over and over. We're going to be confronted with food pushers.  But if we cave it isn't their fault, it's our own:  WE are responsible for the bodies God has entrusted us with, not them.

The fact is that we are going to have to develop backbones if we aren't going to seriously derail our own efforts by January second, and potentially longer if we have a hard time getting back on track.  It's tough to say "No" when faced with yummy food you only get once a year.  But what do you want more?  The yummy food, or the yummy body?  It's your choice, but personally, I'll take the bod, thank you.

So I'm allowing myself a few MEALS this month where I am allowed to eat and not count macro nutrients.  But the rest of the time I am going to practice complete avoidance.

I seriously doubt any of us will look back a few months from now and say "I so regret not eating more garbage this past Holiday season". 

So if you've been binging, knock it off!   Stop!  Today!  Right now!  Go back to the basics! Claim whole, clean foods as your friend, and treat the next minute like a new chapter in life.

The year is too short to spend more than a full month of it destroying your health.